I've learned to to just remember to have fun! Every time I forget to loosen up and have fun I take myself too serious and start believing the lies my head tell me. Remember, you are better than YOU think you are....we are often our toughest critics.
What's yours to have will come and stick itself right in your back pocket, you don't have to scurry around frantically seeking it, however, you do have to do the footwork...but let the results take care of themselves.
I hope this message brigs a smile to your face, hope to your heart and inspiration to your soul to carry on and trudge forward to make peoples lives a little easier with that special gift you have....the rest will take care of itself.