Hello again. I do what I do for a living (Past
Life Regressions) because my husband, Dan, who was a skeptical
nuclear scientist and lawyer, died in my arms, and then “came
back” from the In Between and connected with me – both
emotionally and physically, and yes… sexually.
My book, Love From Both Sides – A True Story of Soul Survival
and Sacred Sexuality tells the story of a soul-connected
love. But it’s actually a cautionary tale,
because it tells what happens if one of the “soul-mates” in a
relationship betrays the “agreements” made in the In
Between. You can read chapters online right
now, if you have a chance: http://sriseley.findhornpress.com/
My husband actually betrayed our “soul agreements,” and as a
direct result of his betrayal, he died. That’s
right -- he died. Now that’s not something I
usually admit outright, but that’s the absolute
truth. And that’s why he had to “come
back.” He had to come back to apologize for
not appreciating our life together more. The
book slaps you upside the head, and gets you to focus on the joy
of living now. Fortunately, Dan had a great
sense of humor, so Love From Both Sides is actually
quite funny! And in reading it you will see
that death is nothing to be afraid of.
However, living a life that is not authentic and filled with joy,
is what you should fear!
I’m a hypnotherapist and I do Past Life
Regressions. I trained with the wonderful
psychiatrist, Brian Weiss, MD., who, like my husband, was a
skeptic, but his experience changed his life.
Many Lives, Many Masters, tells the story of doing a
past life regression on a patient to find the origin of a phobia,
and poof! He wound up 3000 years ago in
Egypt.
In my own practice, (http://www.StephanieRiseley.com)
I’ve helped many people understand “problematic” relationships
and heal old wounds.
How does it work?
First, I put clients in a state of focused relaxation and then
encourage them to find a pleasant childhood
memory. That gives them an idea of how their
own brain “sees” a memory because every brain is
different. Then once they are comfortable, I
ask if it’s okay to go to their birth
experience. Many people remember being born,
and it’s interesting for them to see it from this perspective.
Then, I give some more deepening suggestions, and from there – it
all depends on the individual person – we find answers to the
questions they want answered. No two people
are the same, and so no two experiences are even similar.
Let me just give you an example of a recent adventure into a Past
Life.
The other day, I got a phone message from a woman saying she
needed an “Emergency Past Life Regression.” I
thought, “Okay. This is a first!”
But I talked to her and discovered that she
had fallen head over heels in love with a handsome New York
lawyer and now she felt crazy. She needed help
and she needed it now.
Susan’s an attractive newly divorced woman of 53, who lives in
Los Angeles. She’d met Trevor because she’d
seen his picture at a friend’s house, and she knew she had to
meet him! So she emailed him and before she
knew it, she was in New York, where they had four fabulous,
sexually explosive days. Trevor and Susan were
so connected, they couldn’t keep apart. She
came home to LA, and then Trevor flipped out –
totally.
He said he wasn’t ready for this kind of relationship, and that
he couldn’t do this now. It was too
emotional. And that’s why she called me.
I led her back to a time in the early 1900s, in
Boston. She saw herself as a extremely rich
young woman, waiting on a park bench for her
boyfriend. And she smiled, and said, “Oh, it’s
Trevor! He’s a soda jerk – he’s wearing a
funny stripped shirt.” She started to
cry. “Oh, I feel so happy just to have him
near me!” Then through a series of “going forward in time”
suggestions, she saw her former life open up to
her.
She saw her wonderfully protective parents who loved her, but
told her that Trevor could never be a part their world, because
he wasn’t of her class. And, because of that,
they were going send her away to school.
And then, she saw herself older, newly graduated from college,
with her Harvard lawyer soon-to-be husband in
tow. Then, when she was about to be married,
she saw herself at the top of a stairway dressed in white, she
said, “I don’t want to do this! I still love
Trevor! Why am I doing
this? For my parents? For this town?” But she
married the lawyer anyway, and had a very boring but good life
with him.
She was “club lady,” who did volunteer work, but never loved like
that again. Then one day, when she was in her
60s, now a grandmother in that lifetime, Trevor, who was now a
widower, came to her house, flowers in hand.
He’d become wildly successful as an ice cream
manufacturer. She sat with him, and she said,
“Oh, I feel as if someone has just watered my withered
heart! I still love him so
much!”
He wanted her to come away with him, but out of propriety, once
again she didn’t follow her heart, she stayed in a marriage that
was dead, and did as she was expected. And so
when she died in that lifetime, I asked Susan what she needed to
learn from that lifetime. “To follow my
heart!”
Now you might wonder what happened? How did
that help her? I advised her to just let
Trevor come around. That the experience
probably scared him (men scare so easily ; ^)) and to just send
him love. But for her not to expect
anything. And so she was able to understand
the powerful emotions, and eventually, everything worked out very
well.
Many of the relationships in your present lifetime, you’ve had
before. Just honor and love who you
love. And do it now! Don’t
wait until the next lifetime, okay?
http://www.StephanieRiseley.com