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May 6th

Aura Sheilding and Light & Love Emittance

By Eileen Lichtenstein - Peak-Performance-Success Coach
Do you know about Aura Sheilding with Light & Love Emittance?
This is always a powerful practice to set up for yourself, especially while traveling, which I've been doing a lot of recently.  This is the how and what:

  • Center and ground yourself in a quiet place without distractions.   I find "The Mountain Meditation" via Dr. Jon Kabat Zinn, "Wherever You Go, There You Are" to be excellent for this purpose: 
    http://www.amazon.com/Wherever-You-There-Are-Mindfulness/dp/1562827693  
  • Visualize a white - lavender aura surrounding your body reaching out at least as far around and up as arm's distance.
  • Visualize a stream of light entering your aura from Source above and streaming down into the Earth. 

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  • Affirm your energetic shield of protection is with you wherever you go and that you have the ability to renew it whever you choose.
  • Affirm your power to send light-love to whomever comes your way.
  • Keep smiling and enjoy!

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Oct 17th

Building Your Business With Tools From the Angels!

By Mariaemma Willis - Learning Styles Specialist - for School & Life Success
We hear a lot nowadays about the Law of Attraction and attracting what you want for your business and your personal life.
A friend of mine passed this on to me and it has been one of the most valuable recommendations I've ever received.

It was in a newsletter from Ann Albers of www.visionsofheaven.com. Here it is:

"The angels gave me two tools to build my entire business. Simple as they seem, they both worked.

The first was just a little meditation. They had me sit quietly every morning, feeling how much I loved to help people. As I felt the love for my work, they had me imagine the light in my heart radiating out in all directions. I would let the light build until I was floating in a bubble of radiant light. At that point they told me to simply say in my mind and heart, 'If I can help you with my work, and you will honor the exchange, please find me.' People started walking into the bookstore saying, I'm not sure why I am here, but I think you can help me. I knew I had connected with their soul and that the interaction would serve us both. Talk about angel marketing! Heaven always seeks to bring us mutually beneficial partnerships whether business or personal.

The second tool was gratitute. After each client the angels tasked me to drop into my heart and feel gratitute for the ability to serve that person. 'Thank you God for allowing me to serve this soul. I am ready to help the next one.' They asked me to say this after each client. Discussions of money were not allowed in these prayers. Instead they suggested I focus on my soul's true gratitude. I did love helping people so that was easy. As I focused on the service, rather than the money, two magical things happened. I felt rich because I as able to share my gifts with people and in this vibration people sensed that they would receive help. Secondly, when I removed money from the discussion, fear went away as well. In the absence of fear, business picked up. Soon the two slowest days of the week became the two busiest days. Love is what built my business, not strategy, manipulation, glossy ads, or any sort of conventional means. Just plain love."


Whenever I have put this into practice myself, it has worked like magic for me.
The interesting thing is that I still forget to do it! Especially when things start going well. Sharing it here with all of you has reminded me to make this a daily, even hourly habit in my life.

Give it a try and let me know how it works for you!


 Related Article: 

Creating Successful and Soulfilled Relationships

Oct 6th

Introspection, Forgiveness and Gratitude

By Eileen Lichtenstein - Peak-Performance-Success Coach

On the Hebrew Calender, in the Jewish religion, Yom Kippur, a day of atonement and fasting concludes the week starting with Rosh Hashanah , the Jewish New Year.  It is a week of prayer and celebration, introspection, forgiveness and gratitude the last day of a week of introspection, forgiveness and gratitude concluding with  fasting and atonement onYom Kippur concluding with the blowing of the Shofar (ram’s horn).

I find this week of tradition, feast and fasting, introspection, forgiveness, gratitude and renewal totally congruent to my personal belief system and with prayers for world peace and resolution of the economic, political and environmental global crisis we find ourselves in.

L’shanah tovah (“for a good year”) to all!

 

Aug 17th

How to Meditate for Beginners 10 Easy Techniques

By Suzanne Rose Lubkowski - Certified Intuitive Life Coach

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How to Meditate for Beginners  Using my Simple Techniques.

I offer shawdow of meditatoryou on your journey a blueprint for meditation success.  Learning to meditate can be easy to do.


The definition of meditation is to reflect on; to contemplate.  Hindu and Buddhist traditions train to calm and to empty the mind, often by achieving an altered state; as by focusing on a single object.  Some define meditation as devotional contemplation as in prayer.  For the purposes of this article, we will focus on meditation as being present in the moment and calming and relaxing the mind.

 

How to Meditate for Beginners 

As a beginner to meditation, some simple ways to make meditation a daily practice are available.  Let's explore some steps to get started.

 

1.  Make a decision to begin your  mindful meditation. 


2.  Prepare a special place in your home.  Many create a sacred altar.  It is helpful to use the same room or part of a room each time you meditate.  

 

You want to bring loving and positive energy into your mindful meditation space. The purpose is to be apart from the ordinary day- to- day experience.  Once you get started and feel comfortable with the process, continue to your special place.  Add flowers, crystals or rocks. Whatever you like as you go along to make it special. For now, light a special candle. 

 

3. Commitment: Having this special space will assist you in keeping your commitment to your new practice. 


4. Time: Create a regular time of day to get the benefits of  meditation.  Energy workers recommend every twelve hours.  The most beneficial times are to begin and end your day with meditation, when you are most receptive and open.

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5. Start with a Comfortable position:  Sitting upright allows the energy of the body to flow; and helps to avoid falling asleep which is easy to do when relaxed.  If it is difficult to sit upright, lying down also works. 

Do not cross your arms or legs.  You can also open your hands palms up to symbolize your openness and readiness.


6. Breathing: The most important part of meditation is the breathing. Bring your attention to your breath.  The breath is our life force energy. Notice your chest as it moves up and down while you inhale and exhale.  If your mind wanders, simply bring it back to your breathing.  Just bring awareness to what is going on within you.  

 

Don't get discouraged if your mind wanders.  Just allow any thoughts, feelings and bodily sensations to come and go.  You are retraining your mind through practice.  The purpose of meditation is to go inward and quiet the mind.

 

7. Five Minutes: Begin slowly, start with a five minute meditation and work your way up to ten minutes and so on.  You can continue to progress to 45 minutes to an hour.  As you relax into the experience, time will stand still and relaxation and ease will permeate you. 

 

8. If you have trouble with the silent breathing meditation you can try a Mp3 to guide you in the beginning. You may like grounding your energy to become fully present in your body.  Imagine your feet going into the earth and allow that energy to move up your body, feeling solid, strong and purposeful like a tall oak tree.  A grounding meditation can help you learn  to bring the energy and presence into your body.

 

*How to Meditate for beginners while reaping all the benefits of meditation takes practice and commitment to the daily ritual. Regularity will quicken the success you have in experiencing this.  You will soon begin to feel the still point or the stillness that the ancient teachers spoke of.

Mindful Meditation Tips:

Calm and stability of the mind is the purpose of mindful meditation.  As we continue our practice, the time we give to our self and meditation becomes a precious gift.  A higher purpose to this practice is to bring this calm and stable energy to every part of our day and experiences.  We become the calm in the storm.  We are able to remain peaceful even during stress and challenges.  

 

 

Mindfulness also supports us in being in the present moment.  Being fully present means not living in the past or future.  This moment is all there is.  We create in the present.  Our creativity and intuitive knowing are felt in the presence of the moment.  As we become regular meditators, inspiration, insights and intuition are the gifts we receive from our dedication and commitment. 

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Meditation is proving to have physiological, psychological as well as spiritual benefits.  In a study published online (see reference below) April 21 in the journal Brain Research Bulletin, the researchers found that people trained to meditate over an eight-week period were better able to control a specific type of brain waves called alpha rhythms. An article in Psychology Today states that neuroscientists have found that meditators shift their brain activity to different areas of the cortex, brain waves in the stress-prone right frontal cortex move to the calmer left frontal cortex. Studies are showing that meditation helps with stress, fatigue, and strengthening the immune system and much more.   

 

  Seven Top Benefits of Meditation:

 

1.  Many health benefits, including increased blood flow and slowed  heart rate. Research has revealed that meditation increases the activity of the  cells that kill bacteria and cancer cells.  

 

2.  Helps concentration and focus.  Many athletes reap the benefits of meditation to strengthen their concentration in order to become better at their sport.  

 

3.  Builds self confidence and helps with phobias and fears.

 

4. Aids in your efforts to quit smoking and addictions.

 

5.   Spiritually, meditation brings more inner harmony and brings a deeper understanding of one's self and others.

 

6.  Helps bring more peace of mind which benefits us holistically; mind, body and spirit.  

 

7.  Meditation can help you to discover your purpose for being here.  

 

The benefits of meditation are plentiful. Mindful Meditation is simple to learn and becomes natural with practice and commitment.  It is free and can be done in your home, office or out in nature.

Meditation can cultivate an inner peace and happiness that most everyone longs for in this life experience. In this busy, hectic world, meditation is a key to bring more balance, relaxation and peace to life.  There are so many benefits of meditation.  I invite you to get started today.  The how to meditate for beginners techniques outline will bring you closer to your goal of learning to meditate with more ease and achieve the benefits that only meditation can bring you.

 

Resource:

http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0361923011001341

Author’s Bio:

Suzanne Rose Lubkowski, International Intuitive Life Coach, Reiki Master, located in Washington, D.C. area

  • Partnering with spiritually oriented professionals going through a period of re-discovery to create their purpose-full and inspired next steps and actions
  • Offering holistic life coaching and practical tools that allow life-changing vibrational shifts and manifest positive outcomes
  • With a spirit of joy and expectancy
  • Soar like a butterfly - one shift at a time!

Visit me online and sign up for my newsletter gift of a MP3 walk-through meditation and a complementary strategy session today!

 

As your meditative journey continues, you may want to explore and experience more of my advanced meditative techniques. To get started now, go to Coaching Programs  with Suzanne Rose Lubkowski.

 

Jun 18th

De-cluttering your way to your abundance and prosperity

By Suzanne Rose Lubkowski - Certified Intuitive Life Coach

 

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Are you ready for abundance and prosperity in your life?  What if you could open the space to create more good in your life by de-cluttering?   Would you be willing to make the necessary changes?  Ready, set, go!

I have worked with people from all around the world who also have clutter challenges.   This seems to be part of the human experience; for many or most.   We went through the 80s and 90s where more and bigger was better. It was a better economy and credit was easy to get.  People were moving up into bigger homes and bigger homes mean more things.  Very few people saw what was ahead in the upcoming years. 

What creates clutter in our lives?  Very often, we fill our lives with stuff to fill in unfilled needs in our lives.  We also can use things to provide a protection around us from hurt and pain.  The first step is the awareness, and then taking responsibility to move through this challenge and desiring this change.  If we truly desire abundance and prosperity in our lives, we have to make this commitment to change and transformation. 

Most of us just have too much 'stuff' and do not have the organizational know-how to keep things in order.  We may be too busy or have never learned the skills to have a place for everything.   Many times, however, a challenging life situation such as a long-term illness or crisis in the home creates a cluttered and chaotic environment.   Many professional organizers see this time and time again.  There is also many hoarders in the world which is the most challenging situation for professional organizers.  If you have watched the TV show, "Hoarders", you know that this situation goes beyond clutter and disorganization.   Both professional organizers and counseling support is needed for hoarding situation.

How did I get so much stuff?   That is a question I, like many, ask ourselves on a regular basis.  My own personal challenge brought a time of major clutter and disorganization in my life and home; specifically during my time of caregiving for my late husband.   I am still in the process of getting rid of things and reorganizing my life and physical stuff.  It takes a lot of time and energy to do this and this is where a big part of the commitment comes in.  Any spiritual work is like peeling the layers of an onion.   We continue to go deeper and deeper.  As we release physical things from our life, we receive greater openness for abundance and prosperity to move into these spaces. 

Spiritually we are being called to clean out within and without, and to lighten up and let go.  We are being asked to focus on the priorities in our life and simplify in every area of our lives.  We are being called to know a deeper understanding of who we truly are and in this knowingness, letting go of anything not serving our higher purpose is required. 

Here are some tips for taking control of our lives through de-cluttering and creating the space for more abundance and prosperity.

Step 1.   Take an honest look at what’s going on in your life.  Our outer world is a reflection of what is going on within us.  Like a mirror, it reflects back to us what is going on in our inner world.  If our outer world is messy, clutter, disorganized, we want to look at our spiritual world. How much joy, peace, abundance and prosperity are we allowing into our life? 

Where is there clutter in your home, office, thoughts, lifestyle and even relationships?  Each and every one of us have some clutter and disorganization and our own comfort level with it.  Some people have a very small threshold for clutter and a cluttered desk is challenging to them.  Most of us are probably in the middle between that level and hoarders.  If you truly see yourself as a hoarder, when you are ready, find a professional organizer and if needed a counselor to help you to make the changes. 

Step 2:  Decide on your why.  What would you like to receive in your life?   Abundance and prosperity come in many ways.  Is it peace of mind and simplicity?   Are you looking for relationship blessings?  What about more time to focus on the important things in life?  Would you like the space to do more things you truly enjoy without having to clean knickknacks?   Meditate and contemplate on what new doors of opportunity would you like to experience.  The why will keep you moving forward and get you to letting go with more ease and to meet your goals. 

Step 3:  When you are ready to make changes, take one step at a time.  Professional organizers recommend taking one room at a time; usually one drawer or closet at a time.  As you see the progress, reward yourself; but not with bringing in more stuff.  

Step 4.  As you work through releasing your stuff, create bags and boxes sorted for charity, for trash, for freecycle and if needed, a not sure pile.  Get rid of the boxes and bags immediately.  When it is gone, we rarely if ever miss it.  See your goods going to someone who will use and enjoy your items. 

Step 5:  Ready to begin.  See this as a part of your spiritual evolution, because it is.  You are becoming more within.  As we let go of more on the outer realms, our Light grows brighter and we open the space for more joy, peace, tranquility and abundance and prosperity in every area of our life.

Namaste!   I salute this Light within you.

 

Suzanne Rose Lubkowski, International Intuitive Life Coach, Reiki Master, located in Washington, D.C. area

- Partnering with spiritually oriented professionals going through a period of re-discovery to create their purpose-ful and inspired next steps and actions

- Offering wholistic life coaching and practical tools that allow life-changing vibrational shifts and manifest positive outcomes

- With a spirit of joy and expectancy

- Soar like a butterfly - one shift at a time!

Visit me online and sign up for my newsletter gift of a MP3 walk-through meditation and a complementary strategy session today!


May 16th

The Whale - Giving and receiving Gratitude

By Eileen Lichtenstein - Peak-Performance-Success Coach

 


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"..The Whale... If you read a recent front page story of the San Francisco Chronicle, 
you would have read about a female humpback whale who had become entangled in a spider web of crab traps and lines. She was weighted down by hundreds of pounds of traps that caused her to struggle to stay afloat. 
She also had hundreds of yards of line rope wrapped around her body, her tail, her torso, a line tugging in her mouth.

A fisherman spotted her just east of the  Farallon Islands  (outside the Golden Gate ) and radioed an environmental group for help. Within a few hours, the rescue team arrived and determined that she was so bad off, the only way to save her was to dive in and untangle her.

They worked for hours with curved knives and eventually freed her. When she was free, the divers say she swam in what seemed like joyous circles. She then came back to each and every diver, one at a time, and nudged them, pushed them gently around as she was thanking them. Some said it was the most incredibly beautiful experience of their lives. The guy who cut the rope out of her mouth said her eyes were following him the whole time, and he will never be the same. 

May you, and all those you love, be so blessed and fortunate to be surrounded by people who will help you get untangled from the things that are binding you.

And, may you always know the joy of giving and receiving gratitude."


 

Apr 27th

What Do You Want From Life?

By Marla Bollak - Intuitive Personal Coach

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I recently ran across this quote:

"The truth of the matter is that you always know the right thing to do.
The hard part is doing it."  - General H. Norman Schwarzkopf

General Schwarzkopf is probably talking about military/political stuff, but I have to disagree. (Well, maybe I don't have to, but I do.) Sure, it's easy to know that you shouldn't steal, maim or murder. That stuff is black and white, but there are many shades of gray. Still, I'm not interested in talking about moral issues today. I'm interested in talking about something different - like life. So, let's switch gears just a bit.

What Do You Want From Life?

I'm not one of those people who knew from an early age what I wanted to be when I grew up. I've tried different things, and even enjoyed them, but it's been a real challenge for me to know what would make my heart sing - despite the fact that I am very intuitive and know myself pretty well. I've always thought the opposite of General Schwarzkopf. I always thought that, once I knew the right thing to do (for me), doing it would be easy.

The truth, as usual, lies somewhere in between. Some of us did know what we wanted when we were small people, and have led a very directed life. For those of us who have meandered, life has held something very different. Maybe you're different. Maybe you've had to peel away the layers to get to the real you, and now that you're getting closer to the core, you're ready for that inspiration to spring forth and propel you forward to the life you never before dreamed.

Ah, Midlife Has Its Rewards.

Now that I know the right thing for me (now), I'm finding that doing it has its own set of challenges. I'm finding these challenges to be exhilarating and that they are stretching me. I like that. I realize that all the inner work I've done has brought me to this threshold of a whole new world - of me. And, yet, it's not all about me. It's about how I can bring my gifts to the world in a way that's gratifying for me and those that accept them. I'm not even talking anything grandiose, here. I just mean being fully myself so that my gifts spring forth naturally for those who would most benefit from those gifts. Maybe a smile to a stranger that I pass. Maybe a word of encouragement for a friend. Maybe more. Maybe much more.

What About You?

So, what do you think? Is it easier to know what's right for you or to do what you need to do to make it happen in the world? Are you ready for your gifts to spring forth?

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Marla Bollak,   Sage of Enlightenment, inspires midlife women to create the best second half of their lives.

Feb 25th

Attracting Chique Love Relationships! Radio Show

By Dawn Abraham - Award Winning Marketing Expert
Hi Everyone!


 Do take a listen to

Victoria Vetere, PhD, HC - Enlightened Life Coach and Director of Lotus Health & Longevity

The latest Chique Show on "Attracting Chique Love Relationships!" along with  Barbara Conelli, PhD  recorded an hour show on Sunday, 2/13 for your listening pleasure! Enjoy!


Victoria's audio shows with Barbara Conelli: enlightenedlifecoaching.com/audio-links
Oct 23rd

Who do You Typically Turn to in a Time of Need?

By Nancy Miiller - Inner Peace Spiritual Coach
For quite some time I had been feeling a growing sense of release building within. Typically, I say it starts in my toes and works its way upward until I feel it beginning to crescendo. I had been experiencing elements of intense fear coming out of nowhere and in very strange situations, seemingly to have no relationship at all.

My emotions seemed to be at a critical peak as well. Many times to the point of feeling that at any moment I may burst into tears, for no reason at all. These were the ‘symptoms’ that I experience when I know that I am ready to release something big.

It’s important to note that many times it is not necessary for us to know the details of why or what for. Those are typical ego thoughts to keep us perpetuating separation. The real question to ask yourself is, “are you ready and willing to let go?”

For a couple weeks I had been working through A Course in Miracles Workbook, lessons 281-290, starting with 7. What is the Holy Spirit? (W. 437) Each day I read, What is the Holy Spirit, and then proceeded to each subsequent lesson.

For each lesson I focused on the Truth about my Self in God and forgiving all thoughts that are not in alignment with Oneness in Heaven. Working with these lessons and using forgiveness shook something deep within and each day the feeling of upcoming release were building intensely.

Last Friday, I just happened to pick up the newspaper, something I rarely do. A title caught my eye and I began to read. Horror filled my mind as I read about people I knew who, according to the world of form, had done something wrong. Needless to say my mind raced with all kinds of questions and fear overwhelmed me. My ego was having a heyday and this pretty much took the cake.

The following morning I awoke with sadness, fear, anxiety and you name it! At the same time I knew enough was enough of my ego projecting my unconscious guilt.

I began reading my lesson, starting with ‘7. What is the Holy Spirit?’ and as I read, “And if you offer them to Him, He will employ the means you made for exile to restore your mind to where it truly is at home.” (W. pII. 7. 3:3), the words ‘you made for exile’ stood off the page as if they were in 3D. At that instant, I recognized and felt the power of the Holy Spirit speaking to me to remember what I had to do.

I recognized that I had made my own exile, which is a very fearful place; it was all I had seen and experienced in this world that blocked me from feeling the peace of God within. It is my own projections of guilt played out for me to recognize and release. So, I put the Course book down to meditate, I closed my eyes and I remember asking, “Holy Spirit, I desperately need your help to heal my mind of all these fearful thoughts I’ve been experiencing.”

Immediately my body began to relax. My mind grew quite. A wave of warmth and intense love swirled around me and embraced me fully like a mother would do to her child who was in pain. Tears were streaming down my face as the waves of love nurtured me, calmed me and released all the fear thoughts and feelings. It was the most incredible experience I’ve had and words cannot express the love I felt.


Any doubt I may have had about the power of the Holy Spirit and the process of True forgiveness has been eliminated. Any lingering doubts about A Course in Miracles’ practical application and experiencing results are gone as well. Amen.


Nancy Miiller O.M.C. is a Course in Miracles coach, minister & course facilitator, author, Flower Essence practitioner, energy healer, author, and founder of Reconnect from Within®, a company dedicated to Empowering You to Awaken to Miracles in Your Daily Life. RFW’s foundation and offerings are based upon of A Course in Miracles, providing motivating tools and resources, to inspire & guide you to the miracles of healing by releasing limiting thoughts and perceptions with the help of the Holy Spirit your own Inner Teacher.  Learn more about A Course in Miracles, ministerial program, spiritual courses, programs and products at reconnectfromwithin.com or call 480-704-3095. Sign up for her free weekly ezine at lifechanginginspirations.com
Jul 23rd

How Can Past Life Regressions Help You?

By Stephanie Riseley - Hypnotherapy Author

 

Hello again.  I do what I do for a living (Past Life Regressions) because my husband, Dan, who was a skeptical nuclear scientist and lawyer, died in my arms, and then “came back” from the In Between and connected with me – both emotionally and physically, and yes… sexually. 

 

My book, Love From Both Sides – A True Story of Soul Survival and Sacred Sexuality tells the story of a soul-connected love.  But it’s actually a cautionary tale, because it tells what happens if one of the “soul-mates” in a relationship betrays the “agreements” made in the In Between.  You can read chapters online right now, if you have a chance:  http://sriseley.findhornpress.com/

 

My husband actually betrayed our “soul agreements,” and as a direct result of his betrayal, he died.  That’s right -- he died.  Now that’s not something I usually admit outright, but that’s the absolute truth.  And that’s why he had to “come back.”  He had to come back to apologize for not appreciating our life together more.  The book slaps you upside the head, and gets you to focus on the joy of living now.  Fortunately, Dan had a great sense of humor, so Love From Both Sides is actually quite funny!  And in reading it you will see that death is nothing to be afraid of.  However, living a life that is not authentic and filled with joy, is what you should fear!

 

I’m a hypnotherapist and I do Past Life Regressions.  I trained with the wonderful psychiatrist, Brian Weiss, MD., who, like my husband, was a skeptic, but his experience changed his life.  Many Lives, Many Masters, tells the story of doing a past life regression on a patient to find the origin of a phobia, and poof!  He wound up 3000 years ago in Egypt. 

 

In my own practice, (http://www.StephanieRiseley.com) I’ve helped many people understand “problematic” relationships and heal old wounds.

 

How does it work?

 

First, I put clients in a state of focused relaxation and then encourage them to find a pleasant childhood memory.  That gives them an idea of how their own brain “sees” a memory because every brain is different.  Then once they are comfortable, I ask if it’s okay to go to their birth experience.  Many people remember being born, and it’s interesting for them to see it from this perspective.

 

Then, I give some more deepening suggestions, and from there – it all depends on the individual person – we find answers to the questions they want answered.  No two people are the same, and so no two experiences are even similar.

 

Let me just give you an example of a recent adventure into a Past Life.

 

The other day, I got a phone message from a woman saying she needed an “Emergency Past Life Regression.”  I thought, “Okay.  This is a first!”  But I talked to her and discovered that she had fallen head over heels in love with a handsome New York lawyer and now she felt crazy.  She needed help and she needed it now. 

 

Susan’s an attractive newly divorced woman of 53, who lives in Los Angeles.  She’d met Trevor because she’d seen his picture at a friend’s house, and she knew she had to meet him!  So she emailed him and before she knew it, she was in New York, where they had four fabulous, sexually explosive days.  Trevor and Susan were so connected, they couldn’t keep apart.  She came home to LA, and then Trevor flipped out – totally. 

 

He said he wasn’t ready for this kind of relationship, and that he couldn’t do this now.  It was too emotional.  And that’s why she called me.

 

I led her back to a time in the early 1900s, in Boston.  She saw herself as a extremely rich young woman, waiting on a park bench for her boyfriend.  And she smiled, and said, “Oh, it’s Trevor!  He’s a soda jerk – he’s wearing a funny stripped shirt.”  She started to cry.  “Oh, I feel so happy just to have him near me!” Then through a series of “going forward in time” suggestions, she saw her former life open up to her. 

 

She saw her wonderfully protective parents who loved her, but told her that Trevor could never be a part their world, because he wasn’t of her class.  And, because of that, they were going send her away to school. 

 

And then, she saw herself older, newly graduated from college, with her Harvard lawyer soon-to-be husband in tow.  Then, when she was about to be married, she saw herself at the top of a stairway dressed in white, she said, “I don’t want to do this!  I still love Trevor!  Why am I doing this?  For my parents? For this town?” But she married the lawyer anyway, and had a very boring but good life with him. 

 

She was “club lady,” who did volunteer work, but never loved like that again.  Then one day, when she was in her 60s, now a grandmother in that lifetime, Trevor, who was now a widower, came to her house, flowers in hand.  He’d become wildly successful as an ice cream manufacturer.  She sat with him, and she said, “Oh, I feel as if someone has just watered my withered heart!  I still love him so much!” 

 

He wanted her to come away with him, but out of propriety, once again she didn’t follow her heart, she stayed in a marriage that was dead, and did as she was expected.  And so when she died in that lifetime, I asked Susan what she needed to learn from that lifetime.  “To follow my heart!”

 

Now you might wonder what happened?  How did that help her?  I advised her to just let Trevor come around.  That the experience probably scared him (men scare so easily ; ^)) and to just send him love.  But for her not to expect anything.  And so she was able to understand the powerful emotions, and eventually, everything worked out very well. 

 

Many of the relationships in your present lifetime, you’ve had before.  Just honor and love who you love.  And do it now!  Don’t wait until the next lifetime, okay? 

 

http://www.StephanieRiseley.com